The incel population has long been a subject of ridicule and fascination for many people. These "involuntary celibates" claim that they cannot find sexual partners due to various reasons, such as their looks or personality. However, a new study shows that the problem may not be that incels can't find partners, but rather that they are just bad at sex.
The study, conducted at a major university in the United States, surveyed a sample of self-identified incels and gathered information about their sexual experiences. The results were surprising: many incels reported having had sexual encounters in the past, but few had enjoyed them or had been able to satisfy their partners.
According to the researchers, the problem lies in the incels' lack of sexual skills and knowledge. Many of the respondents reported feeling lost and confused during sex, not knowing what to do or how to please their partners. Some even admitted to faking orgasms or avoiding sexual encounters altogether due to their fear of failure.
The study challenges the common belief that incels are simply unable to have sex due to their looks or personality. Instead, it suggests that incels may need to work on their skills in the bedroom if they want to increase their chances of finding a willing partner.
Experts in human sexuality were quick to weigh in on the study's findings. Dr. Sarah Johnson, a sex therapist, commented that "Sexual skills and knowledge are not innate qualities that some people are born with and others are not. They can be learned and improved upon with practice and education."
To test this theory, the university team offered an educational program for a group of incels, teaching them the basics of sexual anatomy, communication, and techniques. They also provided them with opportunities to practice their skills with willing partners.
The results were remarkable. The incels who participated in the program reported a significant increase in their sexual confidence and satisfaction, and some even found long-term partners as a result of the program.
Despite these positive results, the incel community has been reluctant to embrace the study's findings. Some have criticized the researchers for "blaming the victim" and suggesting that it is the incels' responsibility to improve their sexual skills. Others have dismissed the study as propaganda aimed at discrediting the incel movement.
However, the study provides valuable insights into the world of incel ideology and sheds light on the often-overlooked issue of sexual education and literacy. It raises important questions about the role of society in shaping the sexual attitudes and behaviors of individuals, and the importance of addressing the root causes of sexual dissatisfaction and frustration.
In conclusion, the study suggests that incels may need to shift their focus from finding a partner to improving their sexual skills and knowledge, if they want to have fulfilling and satisfying sexual experiences. It also highlights the need for better sexual education and literacy for all individuals, so that everyone can enjoy healthy and pleasurable sexual experiences regardless of their background or identity.